The fight-or-flight response is a physiological reaction that occurs when we feel threatened, either physically (e.g. encountering an aggressive dog) or psychologically (e.g. preparing to give a speech). The term 'fight-or-flight' represents the choices that our ancestors had when they encountered danger in their environment - they could either stay and fight or get away from the threat as fast as possible. In both cases, the body prepares to react to danger.
Here are some of the physiological changes that occur when the fight or flight response is activated:
You can probably think of a time when you experienced the fight-or-flight response. In the face of something frightening, your heartbeat quickened, you began breathing faster, and your entire body became tense.
By priming the body for action, the fight or flight response prepares us to perform under pressure. The stress created by the situation can actually be helpful, making it more likely that you will cope effectively with the threat. This type of stress can help you perform better in situations where you are under pressure to do well, such as at work or school.
In cases where the threat is life-threatening, the fight-or-flight response can actually play a critical role in your survival. By gearing you up to fight or flee, the fight-or-flight response makes it more likely that you will survive the danger.
However, the fight or flight response can also be activated in response to perceived threats where there is no actual danger and it can remain activated for longer periods than it was originally designed for. The physical changes that occur when the fight or flight response is activated feel uncomfortable because we are not designed to remain in this state for long periods. It is designed to help us deal with the threat and return to our baseline state.
Understanding that the fight-or-flight response is a natural survival response that is not always well matched to our modern threats can help us cope with such situations. When you notice that you are becoming tense, you can start looking for ways to calm down and relax your body.
You could try:
- Observing and labelling silently in your mind what you are noticing in your body and reminding yourself that this is the fight or flight kicking into gear preparing you for action;
- If you notice your breathing has become fast and shallow encourage your exhalation to become longer than your inhalation. Try imposing the following rhythm on your breath: breathe in for 3 counts, hold for 2 counts, and breathe out for 4 - 5 counts.
- Do some form of activity to help release the build up of energy in your body. This could be walking, running, cycling, dancing or a form of mindful movement such as yoga or qigong.
Understanding that the fight-or-flight response is a natural reaction to stress can help you fear it less and find ways to actively de-activate it.
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